PATRYCJA MOCHOCKA
Effective, short term coaching model based on Attachment Theory with latest technology tools for repatterning the subconscious mind.
TLTSAT is for singles and couples or any gender or sexual preference, who want to grow as individuals and/or improve their relationships.
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Relationship anxiety, betrayal, trust issues, fear of abandonment or engulfment, commitment phobia, incessant fighting in a relationship, resentment towards your partner, healing from a breakup, changing unhealthy, stubborn behavior & dating patterns are some of the common things TLTSAT excels at changing.
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Repattern your subconscious mind and heal deep core wounds to liberate yourself from things which seemed impossible to release in the past.
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The best things is that you do not have to revisit the past or talk about your trauma to heal now.
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WHAT IS THE LOVE AND THRIVE ATTACHMENT THEORY COACHING?
WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTCHMENT THEORY &
THE LOVE & THRIVE SCHOOL ATTACHMENT THEORY STYLE?
In short : The original Attachment Theory is based on behavior modification (the symptoms) while TLTS Attachment Theory works on reprogramming the subconscious core wounds mind from which the behavior originates (the root cause).
Once you change your subconscious mind the behavior changes automatically with ease.
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The original Attachment Theory was developed in 1958.
The original Attachment Theory is a great base model, however it only manages the surface level symptoms which is behavior.
Imagine behavior is like the leaf of the weed. You can trim the top but if you do not pull out the roots, the leaf will keep growing, sometimes even stronger than before.
We all know how difficult it is to change unhealthy behavior patterns and create healthy ones, even when we know the negative consequences these actions produce. This is why our New Years' resolutions often don't make it past January.
So "why" is it so tough to change and what can we do about it?
The reason for this is that our behavior is driven by subconscious beliefs & unmet needs.
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Your conscious mind cannot outwill the subconscious survival patterns because, to your subconscious mind, these beliefs are your survival programs so it wants to hang onto them for dear life.
Unless you become aware of these beliefs and needs, which are driving you, and change them on the subconscious level you will keep repeating the same behavior patterns.
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Ready for the good news?
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The Love And Thrive School Attachment Theory (TLTSAT), is an updated version of this model.
With TLTSAT you get to he root causes of the problem in the subconscious mind and heal deeply rooted negative beliefs, aka core wounds, which leads to an almost effortless change of behavior to that which you desire.
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When you end the war between your conscious desires and your subconscious survival mechanisms that are keeping you stuck, you can finally shift from surviving to thriving.
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To tie it all in:
TLTS Attachment Theory pulls out the root of the weed so it stops growing and at the same time plants different seeds to grow the thinking patterns and behaviors you actually want to see in your life.
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The TLTS Attachment Healing Model focuses on wholistic healing of the mind, body, heart and spirit.
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It includes latest technology subconscious mind reprogramming tools, mindfulness, nervous system regulation skills, somatic based practices and so much more.
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The subconscious mind reprogramming frees you to be the person you want to be, reach the goals that once seemed impossible and have the relationships of your dreams.
MY STORY WITH TLTS ATTACHMENT HEALING
In short: It is the only thing that has worked for my own healing.
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I'm writing this here for those of you who are inspired by real life stories. I hope it makes you feel less alone in your struggles and gives you hope of a better future.
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I happened upon attachment theory around 2018 while I was searching for answers to why my ex cheated on me, which ended our marriage in 2016.
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This was not the first time I was betrayed.
The penny finally dropped and I had realised that I was the common denominator in all my relationships. Ouch, this stung a little...
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You know that moment when the lights come on, you wake up and realise that blaming everyone else only keeps you stuck in the same muck? That's the moment!
I had to figure out what was it in me that was attracted to these type of relationships.
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After swallowing that bitter pill of responsibility I started to work on healing my attachment style.
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Reprogramming my attachment helped me to heal from an abusive childhood and a lifetime of toxic relationships.
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Once I'd reprogrammed my subconscious mind, which is simpler than you might think, I finally healed my trust wounds, hypervigilance and volatility.
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After a few weeks of doing the reprogramming work I stopped procrastinating. I finally felt empowered to meet my health and career goals. My relationship to my body, food, exercise and money also improved. I started to meet my goals which was a big confidence booster and motivation to keep going with this work.
Now that my nervous system is out of chronic fight, flight and freeze mode and I feel worthy of having a great partner and life, I find it easy to act proactively to achieve my goals.
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My conscious and subconscious mind are working together and it feels like freedom. Exhale...
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It was a great relief to find something that works.
I now have the love, safety and freedom that I dreamed of.
I am extremely grateful to offer this ground breaking system to my clients and see them get amazing results.
Do you have more questions? Drop me a message below
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